One summer evening, my family and I were having a picnic by Lake Eğirdir. As the sun set, the sky turned shades of pink and orange. The lake was being washed ashore by the gently blowing wind. The sand on the beach was shifting gently under our feet.
Eğirdir District and Lake
There were delicious desserts, fruit plates and cold drinks prepared by my mother on the picnic table. As a family, the peace and tranquility everywhere in our hallway energized each and every one of us. While birds were chirping around, children could be heard making sand castles on the beach.
Turkish Breakfast and Lunch: Brunch
After the meal, my father took out his hymn book from his inner pocket and started reading a hymn about how beautifully God had created the universe. The hymns are combined with the sound of the sea and its particles are seen. My brother and I started joining in the hymns with my mother. The birds chirping around us almost belong to us. As we sang together and smiled, we felt truly special and happy.
My father was a religious Teacher
As the sun set, the air began to cool. While my mother was packing the picnic blanket, my father and my brother approached the sea and experienced the refreshing texture of the water. I went for a walk on the shore and left my footprints in the sand.
Turkish picnics are so wonderful
I looked at Eğirdir Bone and Tuberculosis Hospital on the hill from the beach for a moment. It was as if people from different parts of Turkey and even the world were receiving both bone treatment and spiritual treatment in this hospital, which has a magnificent view surrounding Eğirdir district. Just last month, my father underwent chemotherapy treatment and I looked out the window at the beach and imagined myself having a picnic on the beach with my family. Now I was looking at the hospital with the sounds of birds chirping, my mother’s delicious Turkish dessert, and the song of the waves hitting the beach.
Excellent position to look Whole City ( Hospital )
As the evening’s clothes were falling, we watched the stars by the sea as a family. While I was thinking about the stories that lie under a star, I came across once again what a huge and magnificent universe it is.
Evening time near Lake
This intimate memory was just a part of that special summer evening spent with my family. It will remain as one of the memories that always puts a smile on my face. My memories were renewed again and again at Chilliwac Chultus Lake, where I went with my children last summer. My eyes filled with tears as I thought, “I wish my father was alive so I could have a good time with his grandchildren.”
Tea is consumed almost at any time of the day. No other beverage (except water) can be drunk at any time of the day. A glass of tea is placed next to the most beautiful cakes, cakes, pastries, buns and shortbreads. Whether a tea drinker or not, almost no one starts the day without tea. In Turkey, tea is not drunk in a mug or porcelain cup, but in a unique glass. And this glass is called “Thin waisted glass”. Tea is the most preferred beverage for both happiness and boredom. Tea is the most beautiful drink that reflects Turkish culture.
A cup of tea in moments of sadness, joy, fear and happinessRize tea is the black tea used in making Turkish tea. It is produced in Rize province in the Eastern Black Sea region of Turkey. Rize, with its temperate climate, is an ideal city for tea production with its fertile soil and abundant rainy climate.This is a great place to drink tea in Rize, you can have amazing views of many of the mountains and villages in the surroundings and the smell of fresh vegetation makes everything better, a good spot to take a rest after walking around Rize.Tea is collected with great efforts.Tea grows on the steep slopes of the Rize province.Excellent 👅 tasteIn addition to being consumed at home, it is served in Turkish cafés by a çaycı, in small, narrow-waisted glasses. It can be taken strong (Turkish: demli or dark) or weak (Turkish: açık or light)It is traditionally served with beet sugar crystals (Turkish: toz şeker) or a couple of sugar lumps (Turkish: kesme şeker).People of Erzurum love tea very much. They say: It grows in Rize and is drunk in Erzurum.Semaver: Special kettle Silver models of Semaver
5. O’clock Tea ☕️ 🫖
In Turkish Tradition it called ikindi Çayı Afternoon ☕️ tea5 The birth of the demand for tea coincides with the oaths of Queen Victoria in England. In the 1800s, two meals were eaten in England: breakfast and dinner. Over time, dinner gained importance and began to be eaten as later treats and a heavier meal.According to a rumor, Anna, the 7th Duchess of Bedford, became exhausted in the afternoon hours, due to her diabetes, as the hours between breakfast and dinner became longer, and she sometimes fainted. That’s why he would order a cup of tea and snacks into his room around 5 o’clock. Anna began to enjoy this habit more and more, and over time, she began to turn this event into an invitation by inviting her friends to her room. King Edward must have liked these invitations, so after a while he started organizing tea parties. These invitations, which were born in the palace, spread first to all of England and then to the whole world.What is Altın Günü? Gold day…
Golden Day is a traditional gathering of women in Turkey, where the women come together in rotation at each one’s place and eat, drink, talk and dance. It is typically held in the afternoon and lasts for several hours. And why do we call it Gold Day? Because the guests are expected to bring a golden coin for the hostess.
So what about the coins?
One of the reasons to participate in an Altın Günü is saving money. Or maybe you are in urgent need for cash, for example because you want to buy a car, renew your house, cover your kid’s school expenses, or clear your or your husband’s debts. Maybe you are a housewife with no regular income and your family is going through some financial hardship. You cannot take a loan from a bank or you are not comfortable enough to borrow money from someone else.
Or you simply want to socialize keeping the tradition alive and support your sisters who’re in financial need, strengthening your bonds and showing solidarity.
Köy Kahvehanesi: Village Coffe House
Especially in the villages farmers are gathering to speak about their farm activities at Köy Kahvesi where called coffee houses but generally they drink Turkish tea ☕️.
Kıraathane : Reading House
In cities there are tea places which called Kıraathane: Reading Houses. Unfortunately different types of communities are gathering there to play cards and the other games.
For educational purposes students study hard during assignments with ☕️ tea not to sleep Lecturers, healthcare workers on night duty, emergency workers need tea ☕️ There is a saying that we will change the world by reading a lot. We have no claim…. When we don’t read, the world will change us] We read because we know it
Special words for Tea
“Actually, there isn’t much I can give you; there is tea if you drink it, there is me if you love him, there is the road; if you walk….”“They say, ‘What do you find in tea?’ The warmth and sincerity I couldn’t find with people “Tea; “It is drunk to forget the noise of the world.” “When words are lacking, the best treat is a glass of hot tea.”I want to trust, enough to drink tea for a lifetime.Don’t look at what I drink lightly , my love is strong (dark)
For Hope and Pray….
Make TEA My lovely Student !WE ARE STARTING AGAIN
At a time when educational activities were banned, one of his students asked: “Master, what will we do, we lost everything?” The answer was not “despair” but “hope”. “Pour tea, Keçeli! We’re starting over!” We have such hopeless, helpless moments when we need to pour a cup of tea and start over… We are human and helpless.If we drink 🍺 we have a special purpose…
In conclusion, a hot cup of freshly brewed tea is the beginning of the best friendships. Over a cup of tea, we express our most secret sides and our deepest feelings that we do not dare to say. These are the most beautiful sentences written to describe all the sincerity, friendship, love and many beautiful feelings hidden in a tea glass. Tea is the drink of insatiable conversations we have with our loved ones.
Our friends can shape our personality positively or negatively in the course of life. For this reason, “Tell me your friend and I will tell you who you are.” The phrase is an expression of how deep this impact can be. We must be careful about our choice of friends. Because this situation may affect not only our life in this world but also our life in the afterlife.
Some resources says: Mevlana, Vilarmir Lenin, Russian proverb, Anonymous, Emuel, Mexican Proverb, life. Aritra Chakrabortty
The saying “Tell me your friend, I will tell you who you are” belongs to Mevlana Celaddin-i Rumi, who is the author of important works such as Divan-ı Kebir and Mesnevi and is considered one of the most important scholars who lived in Anatolian geography. Mevlana is an important Islamic scholar who lived in Konya and its surroundings in Anatolia in the 13th century. He pioneered the spread of Islam in Anatolia with his thoughts and teachings.
Be careful who you travel with and who you make friends with. Because; The nightingale leads to the rose, the crow leads to the garbage dump. Hz. Mevlana-What the phrase meant to me? Who were in my 5 people-circle? How did they impact my goals?
How do you use this concept of 5 effectively. For example, if you are starting a company, it would help to hang more with other entrepreneurs or people that have started and run companies. If you want to be a stay at home parent, then maybe a person or two needs to be in that category. If you want to push your career forward, then have a friend or two that’s also ambitious like you. If you want to be more spiritual, then surround yourself with zen people. If you want to be more happy, then find others that are contented with their lives, and not scrambling to do it all.
For this to work, you need to know your needs – at least for the short to mid-term. If not, you will fritter away your limited social, networking, and learning time. Spend that valuable free time you have with people that enhance or support that goal or interest.
The list of 5 changes over time. No set of individuals remains constant through your life. They come and go, and you make new friends, give birth to new people, move to new cities, and go through life phases. In each case, a new need or goal might materialize in you. So, the circle of 5 might CHANGE OVER TIME. Which is ok. (1)
You need to realize that you probably mimic your friends. Your friends are also a mirror reflection of you . They influence the choices and decisions you make in your life. If you are the average of who you hang out with, then use it to the betterment of you.
Knowing about the types of friends can be valuable for fostering meaningful social connections, but it can also provide a foundation for further studies in social work.
1) Confidants : In history we may remember
Prophet Moses (Puh) with Prophet Harun (Puh)
Prophet Jesus (Puh) with 12 Apostles (Ra)
Prophet Muhammed (Puh) with Ebu Bekir (Ra)
Ebu Bekir (Ra) with Ömer (Ra)
Confidants are the most precious of friends. Many of us only have two or three of them over the course of a lifetime. These friendships are marked by their intimacy and level of shared trust, and often remain part of our lives for a long time.Without judging with reflective listening I believe having a good listener is essential for healthy well-being. Having someone to hear expressed thoughts or concerns can help lift a person’s spirit and even make them smile. As someone who has struggled with social anxiety, I understand how important it is to have an outlet to feel comfortable and open.
Let me be here for you!A Confidant is someone who listens without judgement and responds with kind words, compassionate feedback, and an open heart.
Confidants may be described as friends who are there for you regardless of the situation. They love you unconditionally. They will be a constant in your life and do not leave when difficulties arise.
You can be yourself and do not have to put on a “show” to impress them. With these friends, you can feel comfortable being your authentic self.
Confidants allow you to confide in them and support your dreams, and they are deeply connected to you. These friends will not judge you and will be honest with you, knowing that your friendship can survive the occasional hurt feelings or disappointments.
2) Constituents are not necessarily loyal to you personally, but they do share allegiance with your mission or cause. If they meet someone who can further their own cause or goals better than you can, they will leave you.
constituents can provide real solidarity and can support you so long as you are united by a similar passion. In addition, constituents can be valuable problem-solving partners, if only for a season.
Important point that: Many confuse a constituent for a confidant and are perplexed when the friendship ends because you seemed to have so much in common. However, constituents will only maintain a friendship when you are able to meet their needs and will abandon you if your interests change from what they were initially drawn to.
3) Comrades are individuals who are not for you or your cause but are against what you are against.
They will be with you as long as you are both fighting a common enemy.
Comrades are like scaffolding placed temporarily on a structure to stabilize it for work and construction.
Comrades will leave you once the joint enemy has been defeated. However, they can be valuable in helping you to avoid unseen obstacles or to overcome shared problems.The friend of your enemy is your enemys just as the enemy of your friend is your enemy,If the enemy of my enemy is my friend, then surely you should be friend to my friend. Holly Black
The Nature of Friendship
It is important to have friends, and valuable to have all three types of friendships. However, it is just as important to be aware of the nature of each friendship in your life. Miscategorizing friends or assuming someone is a confidant when they are really just a constituent can lead to heartbreak and pain.
According to what Abu Muse’l-Eş’ari (ra) narrated, the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said: “A good friend and a bad friend with whom you are together are like the one who carries a perfume and the one who makes a bellows blower.” The person who carries a nice scent will either give you that scent, or you will buy it, or its nice scent will reach you. The bellows maker will either burn your clothes (with his fire) or the bad smell will find you.” (Bukhari, ez-Zebâih, 31)
A Hadith: “A person is on the religion of his friend. Therefore let each of you be careful with whom he associates.” (Tirmidhi, Zühd, 45; Ebû Dâvûd, Edeb, 16)
An important issue will be interpreting the words of our Lord and Prophet correctly.
Say: O People of the Scripture. Come to an agreement between us and you: that we shall worship none but Allah, and that we shall ascribe no partners unto Him, and that none of us shall take others for lords beside Allah. And if they turn away, then say: Bear witness that we are they who have surrendered (unto Him) Âl-i İmrân Sure 64. Ayet
When you maintain friendships with clarity and boundaries, it can improve your life in a number of ways. In fact, medical professionals and researchers have recognized the ways in which friendships can improve mental health. Some mental health benefits of friendship are:
In Islamic faith we Muslim people believe that Prophet Jesus did not die. He will come and share Peace and Healthy life as he was alive. In addition we may prepare conditions with special friendships …
Said bin Cübeyr, zalim Haccac’a karşı Abdurrahman’ın ordusunda savaşan âlimlerdendi. Vali Halid, bir grup askerini Said’in evine gönderip, onu tutuklayıp Vasıt şehrindeki (Kûfe ile Basra arasında bir şehir) zalim Haccac’a götürmelerini emretti. Askerler Said’i götürmek için eve gelip ellerine zincir takınca Said orada bulunan dostlarına dönüp şöyle dedi: “Bu zalimin beni öldüreceğini zannediyorum. Ben ve iki dostum bir gece imanın tadını alarak Allah’a ibadet ettik ve Allah’tan bizi şehitlerden kılması için ona dua ettik. Allah o iki dostumun duasına icabet etti ve onları şehit olarak huzuruna aldı. Geriye ben şehadeti bekler bir halde kaldım” dedi. Sözlerini tam bitirdiği esnada küçük kızı onun yanına geldi. Onu elleri bağlı bir halde ve askerlerin tuttuğunu görünce ağlamaya başladı. Said küçük kızının başını okşayıp ona şöyle dedi “Annene de ki; buluşma yerimiz inşallah cennettir.” Askerler Said’i Vasıt şehrine, Haccac’a getirdiler. Said, Haccac’ın huzuruna çıkarılınca aralarında şu konuşma geçti. – Haccac: Senin adın ne? – Said: Said b. Cübeyr. (Said=mutlu, Cübeyr = Onaran) – Haccac: Hayır Senin adın Şaki b. Kuseyr dir. (Şaki=Bedbaht, Kuseyr=Kıran, yıkan, döken) – Said: Bilakis, annem benim adımı senden daha iyi biliyor. – Haccac: Muhammed hakkında ne dersin? – Said: Muhammed bin Abdullah sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem’i mi kasdediyorsun? – Haccac: Evet. – Said: Âdemoğlunun efendisi ve seçilmiş bir peygamberdir. İnsanlardan gelip geçenlerin en hayırlısıdır. Risaleti taşımış ve tebliğ etmiştir. – Haccac: Ebubekir hakkında ne dersin? – Said: O sıddık ve peygamberin halifesidir. Peygamberin yolunu değiştirmeden o yol üzerinde yürümüştür. – Haccac: Ömer hakkında ne dersin? – Said: O Allah’ın kendisiyle hak ile batılın arasını ayırdığıdır. (Faruk)tur. İki dostunun yolu üzerinde yürümüştür. Şehit olarak rabbine kavuşmuştur. – Haccac: Osman hakkında ne dersin? – Said: O zorluk ordusunu teçhizatlandıran, Rasulullah’ın iki kızının kocasıdır. Zulüm ile öldürülmüştür. – Haccac: Ali hakkında ne dersin? – Said: Peygamberin amcasının oğlu, gençlerden ilk Müslüman olan ve Hz. Fatıma’nın kocasıdır. Cennet gençleri Hasan ve Hüseyin’in babasıdır. – Haccac: Ümeyye oğullarından hangi halife senin daha çok hoşuna gider. – Said: Rabbini en çok razı eden. – Haccac: Rabbini en çok razı eden kimdir? – Said: Bunun bilgisi gizliyi ve açığı bilen Allah’a aittir. – Haccac: Benim hakkımda ne düşünüyorsun? – Said: Sen kendini daha iyi bilensin. – Haccac: Ben senin fikrini öğrenmek istiyorum. – Said: Bu senin hoşuna gitmez ve seni üzer. – Haccac: Ben yine de senden işiteceğim. – Said: Sen Allah’ın kitabına muhalefet eden, kendi heybetini arttırmak maksadı ile kendini helaka götüren ve kendini cehenneme sokacak işler yapan birisin. – Haccac: Allah’a yemin olsun ki seni öldüreceğim. – Said: O zaman sen benim dünyamı yıkmış olursun. Ben ise senin ahiretini yıkacağım. – Haccac: Dilediğin ölümü kendine seç. – Said: Bilakis sen kendin için ölümlerden ölüm seç, ey Haccac! Allah’a yemin ederim ki sen beni hangi şekilde öldürürsen, Allah da seni ahirette o şekilde öldürecek. – Haccac: Seni affetmemi ister misin? – Said: Bana gelecek olan af ancak Allah’tandır. Senin için ise asla bir özür ve bir kurtuluş yok. – Haccac (öfkelenerek): Kılıcı ve deriyi getir(1) ey cellat! – Said güldü. Bunun üzerine – Haccac: Niye gülüyorsun? – Said: Senin Allah’a karşı cüretine ve Allah’ın sana karşı merhametine. – Haccac: Öldür onu ey cellat.! Said kıbleye yöneldi ve şu ayeti okudu: “Yüzümü hanif olarak yerleri ve gökleri yaratan Allah’a döndüm ve ben müşriklerden değilim.” (En-am, 79) – Haccac: Yüzünü kıbleden çevirin! Said, şu ayeti okudu: “Nereye dönerseniz dönün orası Allah’ın yönüdür.” (Bakara, 115) – Haccac: Yüzünü yere çevirin! Said şu ayeti okudu. “Sizi oradan (toprak) çıkarttık ve sizi tekrar oraya çevireceğiz ve sizi başka bir sefer tekrar oradan çıkaracağız.” (Taha, 55) – Haccac: Allah’ın düşmanını öldürün, Kur’an ayetlerini ondan daha iyi delil getiren kimseyi görmedim.
Said en son şöyle dedi, “Allah’ım benden sonra bu zalimi kimseye musallat etme.” Ve cellat, Said’in boynunu vurarak onu şehit etti. Said b. Cübeyr’in şehadetinden onbeş gün geçmeden zalim Haccac hastalandı. Sürekli bayılıyor ve şöyle bağırarak uyanıyordu. “Said bin Cübeyr geldi. Boynumdan tutuyor ve beni neden öldürdün diyor” sonra ağlıyor ve “Said’i benden uzaklaştırın.” diyordu. Haccac bu şekilde çığlıklar arasında öldü. O öldükten sonra bazıları onu rüyasında görmüş ve ona şöyle sormuştu. “Allah sana öldürdüklerinden dolayı ne yaptı.” Haccac “her öldürdüğüme karşılık beni bir defa öldürdü. Said b. Cübeyr’e karşılık ise beni yetmiş defa öldürdü.” (Bu rüya Ömer Bin Abdulaziz r.a’dan da rivayet edilmiştir.)
Tarihin her döneminde zalim sultaların karşısında hakkı söyleyen âlimler var olagelmiş dik duruşları ve mücadeleleri sonucunda ise birçok tehdit, işkence, hapis zulmüne maruz kalmıştır.
Tarihimiz, her şeyi göze alıp Hakk’ın ve mazlumun taraftarı olan, gerçekleri konuşmanın bedelini hapishaneye atılarak yada canından olmak pahasına şehit edilerek ödeyen yiğit alimlerin örnekleriyle doludur. Said b. Cubeyr ise tarihimizde ki zalimin karşısında hakkı haykıran yüzlerce örnekten sadece biridir.
Aradan yüzyıllar geçmiş olmasına rağmen Allah(cc)’in sünneti değişmemiş, zalim sultaların ve adaletsizliklerin var olduğu dönemlerde zulüm hep var olagelmiş, hakkı söyleyenler türlü işkencelere maruz kalmışlardır. Ümmetimizin bağrında ‘En büyük cihat zalimin karşısında hakkı haykırmaktır’ hadisi şerifine mazhar olan binlerce âlim mücahit yetişmiş ve bu âlimler İslam sancağını nesilden nesille taşıyabilmek için her türlü tehditleri ve tehlikeleri göze almışlardır.
Padişah henüz Edirne’de iken Roman vatandaşları çağırmış Bizim çocuklar hemen hasta 🤧 oluyor bir eli yağda bir eli balda iken….. Sizinkiler yalın ayak 🦶 başı kabak hiç hasta olmuyor neden acaba demiş…!!!!???
(H) üüünkârum, Sultanım, Padişahım İlk doğum 🤰 🫄 esnası ÇELİKLEME yapıyoz be yaaa….
Padişah: “ Bre o nasıl oluyor….
—- İç çekerek cevap verir ( H ) Üüüüsmen Ağa
Kızan doğar doğmaz Buzlu ❄️ suya bandırıp çıkarıyoruz… Kızanlar daha duğduğunda fişek 🎇 gibi oluyor be yaaa!!!
Padişah hemen ferman verir ……
📣 📢 Tiz zamanda ebe hatuna haber 🗞️ salınaaa….
İlk doğan şehzade ÇELİKLEME yapılaaaaaa….
Buyruk, Padişah fermanı 📰 hemen tatbik için gün beklenilir…
Doğan şehzadeye reçete 📰 uygulama yapılır….
Tabi çocukcağız Ağır hasta olur Zor kurtarır 👩⚕️ 👨⚕️ hekimler ilaç 💊 ıhlamur, nane, kekik 🌿 ne varsa …. Canını kurtarma derdinde herkes…
Padişah çağırtır (H) ÜÜÜÜSMEN Ağacığı… Ve tiz kellesi 👊 vur emri verir!!!!!!
Ama bizim ( H…. düşmüş ) ÜÜÜsmen. Ağa kendinden emin göğsü önde baş geride ayaklar açık 📐 bir şekilde; Padişahım, (H) ÜÜÜÜRMETLİ sultanım; Sizin (H) aaatanız kusura bakmayın yanlış sizin be yaaa… Bizim kızanların anası da ÇELİLEME idi Ama sizin yenge üüüüle diiiil be ya deyip Cancaaazunı kurtarır o vakit….
Karadeniz uşaklarının Anası babası da ÇELİKLEME Çünkü terayağının hası, balın 🍯 şekersizi ve tam çiçek 🌺 ve doğal ortam ürünü ile beslenmiş
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Örnekleri çoğaltmak mümkün hulâsa-i kelam
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Yeni neslimiz hazıra alışmış olarak yetişiyor.. Yatağını biz yapıyoruz biz topluyoruz… Bilgisayar ve cep telefonu 📲 bağımlısı…
2)Yardımlaşma, hastahane, huzurevi 🏥 ziyaretleri gibi sosyal bilinci oluşturan programlar…
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4) Manevi yönden firâset, basiret ehli tam olarak Kur’an ve Sünnet kaynaklarından beslenen şuurlu nesil ÇEKİKLEME NESİL yetiştirmek için HA GAYRET….
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